Apply to Become a Surrogate in Missouri

The Reproductive Possibilities team would like to welcome you to the world of surrogacy! We thank you sincerely for your interest in becoming a surrogate mother – a truly generous act with a lifelong impact on loving individuals and couples dreaming of parenthood. Whether you’re from Kansas City, St. Louis, Springfield, Columbia, or anywhere else in the Show-Me State, the Reproductive Possibilities team is ready to match you with amazing intended parents across the state, the U.S., and beyond.

Your Guide to Becoming a Missouri Surrogate

If you’re new to the surrogacy process in Missouri and aren’t sure where to start, don’t worry – we’ve got you covered. We’ve put together everything a prospective surrogate from Missouri needs to know about surrogacy, including:

  • Surrogacy in Missouri
  • Surrogate Requirements in Missouri
  • Surrogate Compensation in Missouri
  • How Surrogates Match with Parents
  • Benefits of Being a Missouri Surrogate
  • How to Become a Surrogate in Missouri
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Surrogacy in Missouri

Missouri is one of the country’s few states that does not have any laws respective to surrogacy arrangements. Because of this, surrogacy is generally allowed in the state. In fact, Missouri is considered to be very surrogacy-friendly. However, it is advised that anyone who is considering surrogacy works with an established surrogacy agency, such as Reproductive Possibilities, to make sure that all legal matters will be handled smoothly.

What is Surrogacy?

In a gestational surrogacy arrangement, the surrogate mother agrees to carry and deliver a baby on behalf of a couple or individual who cannot achieve pregnancy on their own. Surrogacy is often used in cases where fertility issues or health concerns make pregnancy dangerous or impossible for the intended parents. It is also becoming an increasingly common form of assisted reproduction for same-sex male couples and single men.

The surrogate’s role is only to provide her womb – she does not provide the eggs that will be used to create the embryo(s) and will not be considered the baby’s biological mother. Surrogates become pregnant through in vitro fertilization (IVF), in which eggs from either the intended mother or a donor are fertilized in a laboratory using sperm provided by the intended father or a donor.

How does surrogacy work in Missouri?

Missouri does not currently have laws in place that address surrogacy, though arrangements are generally allowed to proceed. Because no laws exist at this time, it is advised that anyone seeking to engage in a surrogacy arrangement work with an experienced third-party reproduction agency, like Reproductive Possibilities.

Pregnant surrogate holding her belly

Surrogate Requirements in Missouri

There are certain qualifications that prospective surrogates from Missouri (or anywhere else in the US) must fulfill in order to be considered for our surrogacy program. These qualifications help us determine whether or not surrogacy will be a safe journey for a prospective surrogate and the child she carries:

  • A surrogate must be between the ages of 21 and 44 years old; an exception is sometimes made for an experienced surrogate
  • A surrogate must have given birth at least once before with no medical complications and less than three c-sections
  • A surrogate must be a non-smoker
  • A surrogate must not be exposed to secondhand smoke
  • A surrogate must have a BMI between 18 and 33

The Reproductive Possibilities team reviews every application that is submitted to our program with care. If we feel that you meet our requirements and you complete our screening process then you will be welcomed into our surrogacy program. Learn more about surrogate requirements.

Surrogate Pay in Missouri

Compensation is a very important part of a gestational surrogacy agreement. Surrogates provide such a wonderful gift to others and it is only fair that they are financially compensated for doing something so selfless. Surrogate pay in Missouri is competitive, ranging between $55,000 – $60,000 in total. This pay package includes their base pay, relevant expenses, and benefits. The base pay for surrogates who carry a single fetus is about $35,000, with an additional $5,000 added if the surrogate carries multiple fetuses. In many cases, women who have previously served as surrogates earn higher compensation.

How Missouri Surrogates and Parents Are Matched

Upon acceptance into the Reproductive Possibilities surrogacy program, you will begin the next step in the process: matching with intended parents. The matching process is a carefully thought-out stage that is coordinated by our team. We are proud to have helped to connect many surrogates and intended parents throughout the years and are confident that we can match you with the right intended parents.

We start things off right by having in-depth conversations with each prospective surrogate and intended parent. These conversations help us garner a nuanced understanding of what everyone expects from a surrogacy arrangement, as well as whether or not they have any preferences in terms of the type of person/people they want to work with. Using this information, we look for surrogates and intended parents who share common preferences and expectations. The surrogacy process requires a lot of trust between all parties and emotional intimacy, so it’s crucial that a common wavelength be established from the very beginning.

Once we feel confident that we have a potential match, we coordinate with both intended parents and surrogates to set up an initial meeting. This meeting is a straightforward conversation to discuss some of the most basic details that will factor into the overall arrangement. Some of the questions you can expect to discuss include:

  • What are your preferred forms of communication?
  • How often do you plan on communicating?
  • Is the surrogate willing to carry multiple babies?
  • Do you have a solid family support system?

If you and the prospective intended parents can come to an agreement across all of these topics, then congratulations are in order! You have successfully matched with intended parents and are about to begin the adventure of a lifetime.

To learn more, visit our surrogacy process page for surrogate mothers.

Are you an intended parent looking to get matched with a surrogate in Missouri? Visit our Intended Parents page to get started.

Benefits of Becoming a Surrogate in Missouri

Becoming a surrogate in Missouri with Reproductive Possibilities has many benefits. Not only will you receive competitive compensation, but you can also rest assured knowing that we will make sure that you receive payment correctly and on time. We will also help you connect with the best hospitals, clinics, and surrogacy professionals available, whether you live in Kansas City, St. Louis, Springfield, Columbia, or anywhere else.

Plus, because Reproductive Possibilities has experience matching surrogates with intended parents throughout Missouri, we’re often able to match surrogates with intended parents who are already close to home, which is a great benefit for surrogates who want to work with a local family. From beginning to end, we do our best to make sure that the surrogacy process is straightforward and rewarding.

Finally, one of the biggest benefits of becoming a surrogate is the experience in and of itself. There is nothing quite like knowing that you made it possible for someone else to have a child.

Child sitting with pregnant surrogate mother

How to Become a Surrogate in Missouri

If you’re ready, your surrogacy journey can begin today by completing the online application for our surrogacy program. Please note that the application contains a myriad of questions, and will ask for details about your history, medical, and criminal (if present) histories. Once the application process is complete, we will evaluate your questionnaire. If we accept your application, a member of our staff will reach out to you to start the screening process. Throughout every step, we will be there to answer your questions.

Become a Surrogate in Missouri

Now is a great time to begin your surrogacy journey!

Reproductive Possibilities fully supports surrogates and intended parents at every step of their journey. We are here to answer any of your questions and aid you in the application process. Fill out an application today and begin the journey of a lifetime.

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